Saturday, July 26, 2014

Why Vacations Matter


                I never take vacations, the last time I left Lake Havasu for a vacation that was not a family reunion was 2009.  I did go to girls’ camp in 2010, but if you hate camping that is not a vacation.  I am not a believer in the importance of vacation, I get a breaks from school and those weeks (spring and fall) those are spent in bed reading or just having jammie days.  Oh, wait that is not true, I usually spend it in my jammies but grading papers or working on lesson plans. 

                Last week I was able to go to Nauvoo, Illinois.  I know this isn’t Disneyland or a cruise, and certainly it isn’t a huge vacation spot in the US.  In fact on our plane trip there were 5 people on the plane that knew where it was and we had a map.  It is a small town on the Mississippi River that has 1,100 people that live there.  That has to be close to the amount of people that Disneyland employees as cast members.  So why would that be a place I would have saved money to go?

                I needed my girls to know why we do the things we do and believe what we do.  I have been blessed to grow up in my faith unlike many others LDS people.   All of my friends know that missionaries are going out and talking about the Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints.  They talk about the mission of Christ and why His mission is just as important if not more as it was when He was on Earth.  My family listened to Joseph Smith himself.  They knew him and believed what he said.  They helped him with food, paper, and transportation.  This was just on my mother’s side.  On my father’s side of the family, those families left England to come to America to walk across the plains to come to Utah.  How and why could they do this?

                The Knight family knew Joseph Smith they talked to him and worked with him.  They were the first members of this new church in the 1830’s.  My family in England read the Book of Mormon and knew it was true.  They heard the call about gathering the ‘Saints’ and went.  Sold most everything to come across the Atlantic Ocean and then walked across most of the US to be with those people that believed what they did.

                In Nauvoo, we were able to walk those streets that the early Mormons walked.  I was able to go into the Prophet’s home, see and go into the temple, and walk where my family walked.  I read, researched, and felt like my family was blessed to be where I felt we needed to be.  How did this help my daughters’ faith?

                The stories learned and told there helped them answer some of those questions I wanted answered.  We came home and journal writing became important.  In fact Katie spent a great deal of time looking for a journal with the Nauvoo Temple on it. 

During this trip prayers were asked and answered, I felt closer to my grandparents that have gone before me.  I realized that because I had forefathers that walked the US, that I can overcome some of my problems.  Yes, my problems are different from theirs but, I didn’t have my homes torn down, I didn’t have to give up my worldly possessions, or I haven’t been ridiculed because of my beliefs.  There might be people talking behind my back about those things, but it hasn’t cost me anything. 

I think like many Catholics it would be like going to Rome.   For Jews it would be like going to Jerusalem.   I grew up in the Salt Lake valley so seeing church headquarters was not a big deal.  I wanted to go someplace that was special to my ancestors.  To be in the last place they were truly hurt by mobs and really ridiculed by the people in surrounding areas.   

                I will never regret going to Nauvoo.  I am grateful to Brett and Marie Allen for housing my family so I could afford to go.  I am thankful to Maureen Harshman for letting me crash her vacation.  I forgot how much I missed traveling with Mo.  I am happy that my girls were not upset that we didn’t go to a fun place for a vacation. 

                So why are vacations important?  Sometimes you just need to get out of Dodge and do something you want to do.  I might not be able to go on another vacation for many more years, but I am happy that I got to do something for myself and for my family. 

               

Saturday, July 5, 2014

His Tender Mercies



This week has been very hard for me emotionally.  I have been to be on an errand for the Lord.  There are no other ways to describe it.  There are people that you will meet in your life that just by meeting them your life has been changed for the good.  I have been able to help someone that is a dear friend and more importantly than helping her I have been able to help those that love her.

I have a friend that is dying from cancer.  She is and the fight is over and now those that love her are just helping her cross the finish line.  This sweet friend is someone that everyone knows.  People have hosted car washes, garage sales, and even selling tamales at Christmas.  If you mention her name only good things are said.  I have never heard one person say anything bad about her.  How many of us can say that about ourselves?

As this week has progressed things have gotten worse as it is at the end of life but miracles I have seen.  I think sometimes we think the miracle has to be parting the Red Sea, bringing down the walls of Jericho, or saving all the animals as God sent down a flood to clean the entire Earth.  I however, think miracles are small and usually people will not even know they have happened until years down the road.   

My favorite scripture has always been in the parable of the separating the lambs and the goats.  The people are confused when the king asks questions about helping those that are sick, afflicted, and in prison.   The king says, “In as much as ye have done it unto the least of these my brethren, ye have done it unto me.”  This parable is profound to me, because those that are the least are so grateful for those miracles of meals, a friendship, and a listening ear.  Those are all miracles to them, tender mercies from the Lord.

This week I have felt the presence of the Lord as I say things, do things, and try my best to be one of those that he has called to help.  I have also felt my dear Grandmother sit next me to me as I witnessed small miracles.  I know to people not of faith they would say I am crazy and if there was a God, He would not let this sweet lady suffer.  I however, see it this way, I learned from this week.  I learned that sometimes the Lord expects you to remember who you are and step up to the plate.  I learned that you need to be prepared.  I was able to remember that life goes on.   I held a brand new baby and marveled at how wonderful God’s plan is for us.  He truly loves us!  He knows each of us individually.  He wants the best for us.  He will work miracles and even though it might not be big, it will bless those that need it.

I have learned more than anything that a personal relationship with the Savior is more important than anything on this earth.  You might think that your are just a tiny drop of sand and your life will not mean anything but it does.  As I have witnessed as this humble cleaning lady make a huge impact on those around her.  What a blessing it has been to be on the Lord’s errand.  I can honestly say that today as we celebrate her life, I am blessed and will be a better person for knowing her.  Thank you Benny for sharing this with me.  I know that you have your mansion prepared for you in the next life.